No, we demand too much.
We demand so much from our celebrity idols. They have to have the perfect hair, skin, clothes, dogs, boyfriends, etc – you get the drift. Sometimes we voiced these demands so loud that they could hear them. And even though they insist they are their own person, they try to meet these demands.
This is unfair though – both to us, the fans/followers/worshippers, and to those we idolize/worship. Unfair because we are demanding perfection; and we should all know by now – perfection simply does not exist.
Our celebrity idols, in spite of the higher standard set upon them, shouldn’t have to explain their flaws or imperfections. We shouldn’t even be bothered by those in the first place. We all have them. We are just setting ourselves for disappointment if we let ourselves think otherwise. Why can’t we accept what was handed to us and work with what we got?
There’s less disappointment, less sadness, and even less heartache when we just choose to go with the flow. And less of what happened to Ashley Tisdale, who had to answer accusations that shouldn’t have been made in the first place. Because frankly, it is none of our business if she did or not. It’s inconsequential on whether we like her as an actress, singer or person, anyway.


I’m not quite sure what you are referring to. What happened to Ashley Tisdale? What accusation?
RK