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we ask too much..

Wednesday, 26 Mar 2008
 

No, we demand too much.

We demand so much from our celebrity idols. They have to have the perfect hair, skin, clothes, dogs, boyfriends, etc – you get the drift. Sometimes we voiced these demands so loud that they could hear them. And even though they insist they are their own person, they try to meet these demands.

This is unfair though – both to us, the fans/followers/worshippers, and to those we idolize/worship. Unfair because we are demanding perfection; and we should all know by now – perfection simply does not exist.

Our celebrity idols, in spite of the higher standard set upon them, shouldn’t have to explain their flaws or imperfections. We shouldn’t even be bothered by those in the first place. We all have them. We are just setting ourselves for disappointment if we let ourselves think otherwise. Why can’t we accept what was handed to us and work with what we got?

There’s less disappointment, less sadness, and even less heartache when we just choose to go with the flow. And less of what happened to Ashley Tisdale, who had to answer accusations that shouldn’t have been made in the first place. Because frankly, it is none of our business if she did or not. It’s inconsequential on whether we like her as an actress, singer or person, anyway.

source: People.com; Dan Kulu for image

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Reader's Comments

  1. I’m not quite sure what you are referring to. What happened to Ashley Tisdale? What accusation?

    RK

  2. the link to the article is through her name..

  3. I’m sorry. I didn’t realize that. Now, I understand how it works:). I take Ashley Tisdale at her word. I think she always looked fine and people shouldn’t put a star’s appearance under such scrutiny. I can understand the pressures they feel like they are under. And, the rumors that float around out there are just ridiculous.

    RK

  4. Chay – ILY!

  5. It’s Important to ignore all the stories that go around. Whatever Ashley does with her own body is her business but she can’t reply to every single rumour that goes around.

  6. Good that you say this Chay!
    I think those things they say about Ashley are so imature and ridiculous! She doesn’t deserve this!

  7. ON YOUTUBE ALL COMMENTS ARE REALLY HARSH TO VANESSA AND I DON’T GET IT WHY THEY HATE HER SO MUCH!!
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F5VvvVxuKko
    LOOK AT THE COMMENTS
    AND THIS IS MY COMMENT TO ALL HATERS:
    I don’t understand this hate for vanessa come on grow up she is so talented and beautiful
    she said sorry for her fans do you think britney would do that?!?!I bet vanessa is going to be one of the greatest stars in hollywood!!!I love zanessa i am a big fan and i don’t want them to break up but if they do break up vanesa is still going to be great cause some people say she is famous cause of zac and i think that is completley false!!
    I think the thing in hollywood is that all blondes with blue or hazel eyes are the coolest and talented but i don’t agree with it!!!!!!!!!
    I am so tired with the same stars !we need to show fresh talents like Vanessa she is awesome!!:)
    and for all haters or zashley(never happened and never will)fans and post bad stuff about vanessa GET A LIFE!!!!!!!!

  8. SORRY BUT I HAD TO POST IT!!

    STOP THE HATE AND LIVE IN LOVE!!!

  9. Vanessa is my fave. I just adore her. I hope she never changes. She is unique and talented. I don’t listen to the haters anymore. I just ignore those comment sites that like to bash her. Vanessa.

    RK

  10. no one was talking about it. last i heard about the boob job rumor was in feb, but her PR already addressed that it was false. i empathize with ashley because she may be really conscious about her appearance with all the criticisms and attention it’s getting since the surgery, but i think that she herself needs to stop talking about it, she’s only drawing attention to it.

  11. “Do unto others as you would have done unto you.”

  12. To Katie above,
    People do keep talking ’bout it. It’s not the boob job rumor. It’s still the nose job rumor. People on different websites like Faded Youth Blog and TMZ are saying she had another nose job besides the one she had for the deviated septum. But she is clearing up that rumor and is saying she did not have ANOTHER nose job. She’s only just had one. They just won’t leave her alone already. That’s why she brought it up.

  13. I admire Ashley!

  14. I kind of wish that she would quit talking about it. I don’t need to see 10 articles from People with diffferent quotes with her addressing every rumor. I don’t like when celebrities address every rumor. I don’t need to hear it because I don’t believe 95% of them.

    She already explained herself. Ever since she admitted to getting plastic surgery, gossip is always going to be that she is getting more or that she wants to.

  15. the tabloids just need to leave her alone!

  16. i was wondering. is Jared Murillo not going to be in HSM3? his boyband (VFactory) just added tour dates and theyre on the road from May 1st-26th. that makes me really sad for some reason b/c he’s been there from the beginning :(

  17. i love ashley. she should be able to do whatever she wants with her body, and not have to deal with people tearing her apart about it. She is such a beautiful person, and not because of her looks but by what is in her heart. She shouldnt even have to deal with defending herself in these situations.

    I wish her the best. We love You ash!