It’s been awhile since my last “What to Expect” article. I’m sure you missed me. But I’ve been so pre-occupied with my own heartthrob you see. And I heard through the grapevine that you feel you don’t need any tips from me anymore. Well, sweet pea, lest you forget, your heartthrob is of male persuasion – which basically means he is bound to do something that just calls for some hair-pulling on your part while at the same time makes you want to just shower him with kisses (or whatever else you want to do but I have young readers too).

Anyway, this brings us to today’s topic…

Getleman vs Macho man

Ok, by now you know that your heartthrob is the sweetest, most gentleman person in your IPhone. This is of course one of the reasons you’re with him. When you two are out and you get the chills, he will happily lend you his jacket without you uttering a single word (”brrrr” is not a word). He’ll whisper sweet nothings just to ease your nerves and make sure you are comfortable while socializing with his friends. I could go on and on – your heartthrob will have lots of “tricks” in his gentleman bag.

But, he has an ego too – a male ego to be more specific. And just like anyone with this ego – he’ll have days when he just wants to be the macho man. And the best part (or worst), he’ll try to make you think he’s being a “gentleman” during these days.

Case and point coming up.

Say you got yourself a new convertible car. You’ve been driving around town with the top down - because, well, you can and you need some time behind the wheels to perfect the art of driving. But forget driving that car while your heartthrob is around; because he will insist on driving. The following are a few examples of what he’ll say to you:

• “Babe, I don’t want you to break your newly manicured nails”
• “You’re my princess, so you’re not lifting a finger”
• “This is what boyfriends are for – to drive you around, while you look pretty”

Sounds cute and charming, isn’t it? Unless you know what he really mean by those statements:

“I’m the MAN so I’m driving! No buts and or about it!”

Gasp! I know sweet thing. But remember those “fans” of his that we talk about in my first WTE article? You know the ones that want you off the face of the planet? Yeah, those ones. They will need computer paraphernalia once they see pictures of your heartthrob driving your car, which would be great since then they’ll have to go buy replacements. Shopping helps the economy; so indirectly, you’ll help the world’s economy by letting your heartthrob drive your car. So go ahead and let him. Besides there are going to be those that will be sighing and squee-ing and thinking you two are just the “cutest most adorkable couple ever”. I just hope they don’t forget to breathe.

The bottom line, sweet pea, is don’t let it get to you when your heartthrob wants to be the “man”. Just smile, make sure you let him know how sweet he is (adding he looks HOT while driving helps too) and lend him your glasses – he’ll feel even more COOL. All these will give him a euphoric high which could lead him to doing things for you when you get back to his place. You’ll reap the rewards just by giving him some “macho” man time. Just don’t carry his stuff all the time while he’s walking around empty handed – you’ll ruin your manicure.

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