The friendship is real

It shouldn’t really be a shocker that Ashley and Vanessa shop, get their hair done, grab coffee and eat out together. Afterall, they are friends - and those are normal activities friends do. They might have met in Hollywood but their friendship is not for show; it’s real. And any real fans of these two young and talented ladies should know this - that is of course the fan is worth to be called a fan at all.You see, there are “fans” out there that like to pit these two against each other, for some reason or another. That one is a better singer/dancer/actor than the other. Or that the other one is more stylish or has better hair or has better shoes. Name anything and it can be use to compare these two very different people/individuals. And then there’s the name calling - which for the most part are unwarranted because they come from individuals that do not even know either one of these people personally. What’s the reasoning behind the comparison, all the name calling? Is it really necessary? For whom?As a fan of Vanessa (or Ashley), you obviously have an admiration of her work, talent and such. I’m sure you get “wowed” by the things she does and choices she made in hairstyle, wardrobe, boyfriend, etc. Of course there are those occasions where you deem some of those choices as just plain wrong - but still you smile, and maybe shake your head a little. Because afterall you are a fan and you respect (and admire) your “idol”. I’m pretty sure either one of these ladies, is very grateful for that.But have you ever wonder how they would feel if you, the fan, is being disrespectful to someone they obviously care enough (or like enough) to choose to spend some valuable time with? Do you think they would be proud of you, as their fan,  if you call one of their friends unsavory names? Are you really even a fan? I think not. As far as I’m concern, you are worst than the haters/bashers combined. But that’s my opinion.How about you? What do you think? Would you like it if someone call any of your friends those names? What about if you are the friend that’s been told you’re not good enough to be friends with someone - how would you feel then?And we are called “individuals” for a reason - there’s just no comparing any of us. We are all different - no matter how you slice or dice it. Ashley and Vanessa will never be alike - that’s just beyond impossible. Apples and oranges…

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Reader's Comments

1. 

   Thank you for this. It’s so right.
   When I surf on Vanessa fansites, some people come in and write that Vanessa is stupid etc, and they looove Ashley. But you can also read that many of theese Vanessa fans is also Ashley-fans, but when I’ve surfed on Ashley sites, they’re really mean to Vanessa! They write about Zashley is so much cuter, etc etc.
   Do they actually think that they’re idol, Ashley, likes to hear this about her about best friends, that she’s a s**t and stuff?
   It’s so frustrating, they’re just so immature.
2. Sara on 31 Dec 2007 5:20 am
3. 

   wow that was deep but impresive… i like what you said and its true… i’ve try o stop people that like ashley but hate baby V and i don’t nderstand why… and well i’m a geuge fan of V no matter what but i like ash too…
4. camila on 31 Dec 2007 4:22 pm
5. 

   thanks for this post. I hope some people will think about it twice now before insulting one of these girls. I love you website !! congrats! and Zanessa 4 eveer!!!
6. missisefron on 24 Jan 2008 6:16 pm
7. 

   I love nessa and brenda
8. dania on 14 Feb 2008 3:24 pm
9. 

   I love both of them.
   They’re really BFF’s
10. Bubble on 12 Apr 2008 11:03 am