My dearest kuuipos,

You must be tired. Tired of the rumors. Tired of defending our dear Zac & Vanessa.

Tired of their haters and bashers always having something mean/bad/hurtful to say about them and the kuuipos.

Do you sometimes wish that rumors would cease to exist? Wish that Zac and/or Vanessa would publicly say something to stop the rumors? Wish that these haters/bashers will stop so we wont have to hear their hurtful words or so we wont have to keep our defenses up?

We know we won’t hear either Zac & Vanessa address any of these rumors - we all know that’s not how they are.

And sadly, there will always be rumors; they are part of Hollyweird and the lives of our dear Zanessa.

We don’t have any control over the haters/bashers thoughts too. They are the only ones that can control themselves. No matter what we (or Zac & Vanessa) do or say, we can’t change their opinions. We can’t control the fact that when it comes to Zanessa matters, they basically throw away any common sense they have. We can’t control the fact that they only see the grey clouds, the bad.

I read an article recently about how most of these people are “grasping at straws”, and I agree. It’s easier for these people to say that someone is unhappy by looking at a picture. It’s juicer to mention that the girl with her arm on his waist is a “mysterious babe”, and insinuate a possible problem, than say it’s a fan wanting to have their picture taken with their idol. It tickles some peoples’ fancy to say that a relationship is not working than say it is getting stronger.

But we do have control over one thing. We have control over how we react to all the rumors, the haters and bashers.

First off, it’s a waste of time and energy trying to control something uncontrollable. It’s futile to fight those who are set in their ways. It’s unfortunate that there are people out there who find their happiness by bringing others down.

Second, do you really want to stoop down to their level? I mean really… what do you get by arguing with them? Or calling them names because they did? I don’t like how they are; why would I want to be like them?

Think about it dear kuuipos. Breathe before you do anything or say anything. We might just need all the energy we have for a long haul in kuuipoland.

Sincerely,

someone seeing the world in a “new” set of eyes (literally)

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